Q: It is better if i do that with my wife now.

I was staring at the laptop for a good three minutes. PingF sent me a private message on Facebook to tell me that she “got into a car accident” and that she “hit 2 cars” in the process. First thought to mind: she must be well. You may then say, some friend you are to think that she’s doing good now. That must have been some terrible experience. I mean, she could have died! Hold on. She sent me this message via Facebook. This implied that there was no sense of urgency in message relay. It almost seems as though she just wanted to notify me of that incident. As someone who thinks deeper than a layer, I felt compelled to analyze where her mind’s at and to then approach the subject matter carefully. Just in case she flips out PTSD style.

I called her, like a friend naturally should. She was well indeed. Almost too cool as a seasoned cucumber. I was betting on her being upset about her mishap, and she did sound disappointed. I mean this girl hit the first car at the crossroad, drove on and proceeded to hit a second car because her flight mode switched on. Friend was laughing at the end of the conversation though.

Hello there,
Vonnie S.